HEALTH ENRICHMENT
Building Strength, or, Allowing Failure.
Freedom from Blocks!
BECOMING ENERGY BLOCK FREE IS AN ACHIEVEMENT.
It can be a misunderstood attainment in our competitive and rationalistic culture. Being free of energy blocks does not make one perfect. Freedom from Energy Block domination does not provide you with skills and strengths which you have not developed. It will allow for the easier development and use of many beneficial coping skills.
Some skills will seem to be gained spontaneously, or, released from some common genetic resource we all have. Self-assertiveness, positive self-esteem, positive self-direction, greater awareness of others, greater acceptance of oneself and others --- may all seep out from the now unlocked storeroom of resources that we were born with.
Other skills and attitudes must be aggressively chosen and developed against the resistance of the familiarity of past patterns, including the expectations of others, and the resistance of one's Ego (personal assumptions and expectations) or SuperEgo (social values).
Losers seem to ask for the negatives by their choices.
What of the person who feigns dramatic interest in the underdog only for the attention it attracts. Or the person who never learns the rules of the household, relationship, or job position --- because the disciplinary action taken provides a form of attention that the desperate would rather receive than nothing. And then there is the perfectionist that we may hire with the knowledge that we can always count on them to do the detail work, the organizing, and the cleaning --- that we don't pay them to do.
The stronger one's willpower, the stronger can be one's commitment to change and success, or, to inertia and failure. The stronger the intensity of one's expressions in the past, the faster one may progress, AND, the greater the challenges may be. Intensity of expression is the single most disorienting and self-sabotaging aspect of communication.
INTENSITY often makes you sound aggressive when you are confident and others react with defensiveness which you may experience as rejection or abandonment. An assumption of aggressiveness may extend to an assumption of intolerance and anger, and such may produce reactive behaviors of passivity, avoidance, aggressiveness, and anxiety. ALL of these miscommunications encourage distrust, dislike, and, dependency.
What we are best to be acutely aware of is that for as long as we have had our Energy Blocks we have been consistent in following destructive patterns of interacting. Those who have been around us have observed and recorded not only the patterns but also their predictability and consistency. They know what is necessary to jump-start one of our patterns, and, what the outcome will be.
That means that our Block-induced lack of control can be manipulated by others, and, some others will find a way to benefit from that dynamic. This is often not a conscious deception. If certain patterns of interacting with you usually bring a benefit to others, and, you do nothing to deter them, perhaps from internal fear of rejection, why would they not feel encouraged to generate them. Energy Blocks often have us lose the respect of others by trying to do anything, and accept anything, to get it.
Without Energy Blocks, we still find familiar and easy the destructive patterns of thinking, feeling, and acting that we have automatically followed in the past. We now CAN choose. How easy we can choose will often depend upon the frequency and intensity with which the pattern was triggered and used in the past.
When we understand how those patterns of interacting connect with our Blocks and predict what we will be aware of and how we will react, we also understand what our future will be if we continue to let Block-induced behaviors run our lives. If we do not make the effort to place positive patterns where negative ones have been, the familiar negative ones will be acted out, reinforced, relearned, perhaps even re-formed into new Energy Blocks.
Joining in, or, staying out?
BECOMING BLOCK-FREE IS POWERFUL.
That power can open many doors but just as easily find them slammed shut, as in the past. The reason that you built many of your energy blocks originally was that you lacked constructive coping skills for dealing with a problem which presented. That form of problem can, and often will, present again in your future reality.
You can either choose to prepare, and be stronger, or, choose to do nothing and fantasize that your known weakness will not be tested ever again. In a fast-paced, competitive, complex society, the possibility for re-occurrence of such events and experiences is high. If you have left yourself only with the faulty memory of the original block-forming experience, it is that faulty memory upon which your brain must rely in the immediacy of any urgency.
It is not often that I work with individuals who have Energy Blocks which provide them with INTENSE expressions, perceptions, and attitudes -- as an extension of High Intensity Energy Blocks. Sometimes, these expressions can be very particular to specific triggering factors and most people interacting with the person will never be present when those intense expressions take over. We all can observe such dramatic, aggressive, perfectionistically intolerant expressions when they are in public.
Just as targetted, these expressions may only occur in intimate settings. They may involve physical intimacy, or a lack of it, or, assumed and expected openness and honesty and respect with the experience of abandonment, rejection, or a projection of such. There may be very different worlds between the social and the intimate expressions. These differences may increase in definition and intensity, and, just as easily fall into increased apathy and distancing.
The Block Free person is challenged to joining back in to the groupings they come upon, seek to find, or are imposed upon them. It is rarely Spiritually Guided that one should simply leave a relationship, a company, career, family, relatives, associates, and neighbourhood behind. It is more usual that, if one has access to clear Guidance and chooses to follow same, they will see more and more clearly the co-dependency, destructiveness, denial, and deception inherent in some, or many of the older patterns. Awareness is the first step to realizing what choices you have, and, what you have been living in previously, insensitively.
A challenge is often one of not forgetting or denying the Past, but acknowledging it and growing from it. Sometimes, by knowing where you have been, and why it was unsatisfying, you can gain a sense of what could be a more positive reality. You haven't experienced it yet so there will be elements of doubt. Yet you do know that if the Past was an experience on the unsatisfactory side of simply moving along like a robot, then there is a good likelihood that there is a corresponding pleasurable experience on the other side.
IF you choose to learn and adopt a Spiritual Perspective, you will find that an attitude that acknowledges the positive and negative factors of each reality and then chooses to live the positive will have a positive influence on others. How you RESPOND to others can influence how they will respond and react to you. If you assume that the actions and emotions of the other person are an extension only of you, then you are owning Their experience and their reality without any awareness of what they really is. Perhaps they have had a recent experience of frustration with another person. If you "buy" that You are the problem, you are empowering a person that you have Not interacted with to control you. Why?
Hypnotic Parenting.
What happens when we are too young to see our parents and other adults as anything other than giants and gods? We don't have a choice of parents. They are the human force that is often most in presence around us. Their emotions, phrases, patterns, attitudes, and behaviors become our singular standard of what we can only expect of other adults. It becomes the image of what it IS to be an adult and parent, what is acceptable, and often, what it MEANS to be a parent.
In authority biased cultures, parents represent absolute authority to the infant and child.
Hypnosis is nothing more, or less, than the expression of an absolute and clear choice, with total confidence, to a person who trusts us, and seeks an answer to a situation of confusion, error, or lack of control. The focus of the client is on the hypnotist. The expectation is that the hypnotist, as god in human form, is all knowing and all powerful, or, will play that part.
Many people in an authority-biased culture do play the part and glory in its Power: parents, teachers, managers, owners, clergy, employers, doctors, lawyers, counsellors, therapists --- professionals. This is NOT the only possible form of interaction.
A more Sharing and Reverent mentoring relationship would find the professional able and willing to admit to mistakes and ignorance, willing to listen to the client and child, willing to acknowledge the client and child, willing to work with and share discoveries and successes with their student. This direction encourages the development of the skills of discernment and both proactive and constructive decision-making. This takes more time, more patience, more inner strength, more humility, more acknowledgement of God than the authoritarian. It is just plainly Easier to be quick, intolerant, and, often wrong.
With the advent of tribal societies, chiefs, and kings --- we exchanged reverence for pride, sharing for co-dependency, and respect for order. It is as if we live in an environment of conflict, emergency, and desperation. This is probably how it begins. The trauma of the situation energy blocks the pattern into our attitudes and behavior as if it has been injected into our genes. It is a fine line between whether it IS supported by the addictive and compulsion demands of energy blocks, or, that we have the choice for change, yet usually deny this in Fear of rebelling against our parent and god.
Living a life of calm submission in shame of guilt (toxic shame) or fear of vengeance by a status quo believed to be intolerant. I have seen many clients and others who carry this burden. They may even be consciously aware of it yet do not understand where it came from. Others, tell of the hundreds of times in which parents repeated negative affirmations in phrases that sounded like mantras. "You will never amount to anything." "You have done it wrong! Do it (my) way!" "(Slap-Shout-Swear) Don't you ever do that again!" "I hate you and the day you were born (because I do not have the skills to understand you and communicate in a more constructive way with you, and, because it was my selfishness, not love, which led to your conception."
MANY of these hypnotic-like destructive attitudes and behaviors have been hard-wired into the person with energy blocks. Those can and are released through Balancing as the blocks are dissolved away and released. A great freedom arises from within the person. For others, it is imprinting, not blocks. It cannot be released, or, intellectually wished away. For them, change means having the courage, and the compassion, to forgive their parents for not knowing or choosing better, and to choose themselves to change.
That change WILL require that initially, they will have to practice attitudes and behaviors which are difficult, strange, and uncomfortable. They will not be the old comfortable favorites of telling, blaming, negating, imposing, and ruling. Some, will make it. Many will not. For those who do not, they must wait for a society to emerge which is more understanding, compassionate, empathetic, and supportive. YOU can help that happen.
Hidden Sabotage.
Some people have released only some of their energy blocks and their life and relationships change in Very positive ways. That is enough, and they stop. It is as if they cannot take a higher degree of joy, sharing, contentment, passion, or freedom. Perhaps they require time to adapt, level by level, to increasing degrees of awareness, participation, and choice. Stepping out into bright light after being in near total darkness can be blinding. Skills will likely be best to be developed. Errors may have to be endured. Mistakes of the past may not be reversible or likeable if they involve children or spouses. Denial and minor, yet chronic depression, may be less feared and more conflict free than self-assertion and interdependency.
Others may continue to have a noted degree of disatisfaction in their lives and troublesome destructive attitudes and behaviors even though they have released ALL of their spontaneously presenting energy blocks. Why? This is a minority of clients, about 10%. In 30% of this number, that is 3%, Hidden Blocks are the sabotaging influence. In these cases, the Hidden Blocks have great influence, sometimes seeming to equal the influence of the spontaneously arising energy blocks. Seeming, because in reality their influence is no more than half as great. Yet, with the other blocks gone, one's dramatic increase in awareness and ability for change and learning makes any drawbacks remaining appear huge to what was huge previously but could not be seen well or not at all.
A tragedy of Hidden Blocks is the slight chance we have of releasing them. There are few therapists available in 2003 who have the skills required to do Balancing, and, have at least the knowledge on these pages to work with. That equals a minimum of accessibility. Hidden Blocks have most frequently, in all but one of the seven clients I have worked with on releasing them, had Very limiting and demanding timeframes for change.
Typically, the therapist has only a few hours to prepare for the first session. Others sessions follow with time demands only allowing a very skilled and devoted practitioner to maintain the pace required. Failure to complete a session in a timeframe indicated by the client's Life System, by way of Spiritual Guidance or muscle testing, means that the layer involved will NOT be released and no further layers, if present, will become accessible. Essentially, the therapist and client must jointly be willing to set aside Everything else --- job, appointments, family, sleep, and persist until finished or failed.
During 2003, one such session involved the following:
Seven layers
152 energy blocks
4,479 drops of Remedies
16 paper references
41 scenes from DVD movies
multiple affirmations, for 44 blocks
interaction with the Principle, 37 blocks
Remedies only, for 71 blocks (fortunately)
extensive factor listings, for 68 blocks
a duration of over 40 continuous hours (whew!)
completion with minutes to spare.
The above is NOT an extreme case.
Hidden block release sessions have Always involved multiple layers. They have always involved different requirements for different layers. They have always required the maximum of my abilities to keep up with the pace set by the Reptilian Structure of the client and its requirements for block release. IF it is difficult for me with considerable experience and practice, it would be impossible for many who were not as adept. Odds of finding such a person, willing to drop everything on a moment's notice on the recognition of the importance of such an event to the client --- you say.
Bach Flower Remedy requirements for such a series of back-to-back sessions place an additional limitation on the process. I am not a rich person, part of the sacrifice of choosing to be commited to a minority position of following Spiritual Guidance, self-financing the innovation and development of new options, and, performing a variety of up to 6, typically different occupational roles, at once, with payment for one. Maintaining and carrying several bottles of each of 38 Remedies would be extravagent.
Access to a dependable source of Remedies is thus almost imperative for the treatment of Hidden Blocks. Chances are high that more supply will be required before the series of sessions ends. There is no time for mail order, long distance drives, or stores ordering in from the distributor. Three of seven times, this factor has been a challenge.
In summary, Hidden Energy Blocks CAN reduce the degree of effective recovery from block induced attitudes and behaviors. Fortunately, this is not a frequent reality. For most persons who must continue on with them, life will NOT be perfect or stressfree. There will be times when one must use one's self-awareness and humility to admit weaknesses, avoid dangers and conflicts, and use self-directedness and proactivity to assertively reduce their influence and impact. It is not ideal. Most of reality is not. It is manageable if you are aware of the problem or possibility and know what you can do to limit the sabotaging effects.
Cultural Imprinting.
Have you ever wondered why modern science progresses so slowly with all the wealth of resources and effort funneled into it in comparison to scientific developments of the past which seemed to require almost no wealth and were born of playful innovation rather than intense effort?
If a person must intensely express fixed views while denying the source of their values and their findings, what does it advertise about them? This communication pattern is somewhat typical of technicians who occupy many positions in the regulated and bureaucratized industry called science: they take and follow orders and procedures without question or evaluation. This is also true for many people, who by their imprinting, academic training, and Energy Blocks also find acceptance and validation by dependency on the status quo. What science has constantly revealed for the past 100 years is that what most people believe is usually incorrect. Mass indoctrination does not equal mass righteousness.
The term "objective reasoning" is often utilized by would-be scientists as the god of their beliefs. Yet such persons are careful never to define what such objectivity arises from. When we examine it more closely we find that it refers to generally accepted and taught concepts that represent the status quo --- an authoritarian system of political authority which sanctions honors, certificates, and grants jobs to those who pledge subservience to it. If you do and say what is expected by that group authority, you receive its blessing ... usually including social acceptance and financial security ... did someone say, power. What greater need does the personally insecure person have than power?
Evidence of the common failures of technology abounds in our private lives (in industrialized and consumerized societies, like the North American). In the auto industry, there are always hundreds of thousands of recalls. These are not notices of bonus updates and revisions. They are notices of critical failures that endanger safety and were overlooked in production by the lack of a scientific approach. Science demands testing and cumulative results. Marketing has come to demand sales on the promise of and appearance of results, with very little question or testing.
If you are simply building and extending your reputation using the statements of others as your foundation, you may be replicating ignorance. How relevant is the information you have assumed to be correct? It has been researched and reported for over 15 years, increasingly, that more and more of the so-called scientific papers written in every segment of the scientific industry quote as fact other studies. In some cases, reports that have been printed as much as decades previous have been quoted as supporting evidence in thousands of other papers -- only to be eventually credited with evidence tampering, critically poor design, and other aspects of fraud. And so, for the sake of social and academic acceptance how much time and effort and money has been wasted revering the lies?
The more structured and authority based the culture, the more often are the teachers and mentors simply mirroring what has been taught to them. What if a society was organized in which most of the knowledge believed in was composed of rationalized descriptions and generalized approximations of real personal experience? In such a situation, would not the basis of mass reality not be the illusion of personal experience. The criticism most often expressed by the self-righteous status quo hanger on is that what you are saying doesn't match the status quo. If they will only accept more of the same of a demonstrated failure of the status quo, the existence of the problem, why are they even looking for an answer? Self-sabotaging?
Needs, through their compulsive intensity ... incorporate deception, manipulation, anxiety, fear, and possessiveness. Total commitment is given, yet is unearned and can only arise from the lack of self-respect that allows a person to enslave themselves. Choice demands freedom and self-responsibility. Scientists must always have choice. It is those who demean and distort science who cannot abide choice. For them, assertion is the condemnation of choice ... the possibility of exclusion, of confrontation, of abandonment, of loss.
Aggressive-Passive authoritarian patterns of perception, belief, and communication leave simpler, more direct, and more self-esteemed persons confused and frustrated. Why? Because the aggressive-passive pattern is taught in our mass institutions and results in people NOT being honest, sharing, or straightforward. Don't expect this to be a minor segment of modern mass culture. Statistical studies for the past 6 years (since 1996) have consistently revealed that most people lie to many of those they interact with on a daily basis, and, the tendency is increasing and endemic. The basis of this reaction behavior is imprinted and energy blocked emotional immaturity.
The emotionally immature person does NOT want to hear the Truth for they fear that such truth will point out their weaknesses and errors. The fear is that you will abuse them by expecting an adult response from them which as a child they were incapable of providing. Having been emotionally hurt (traumatized) when young by others who held power yet lacked awareness and respect for less developed persons, the emotionally immature person now seeks to avoid any suggestion of a similar confrontation. The only truth they want to acknowledge is the truth that others have imposed on them, and, the truth of their fantasies and personal superstitions.
The destructiveness of this communication and behavioral pattern is that it leaves the person in a continual state of defence. In extreme cases, a paranoia pervades with the expectation that anything offered by another which is not totally congratulatory towards the subject MUST be a negative, a put-down, an attempt to hurt. Always defending against reality and self-responsibility, the emotionally immature person finds security in their self-made prison of interaction without involvement. They are talking but not listening to anyone but their own fears.
Humans who play God never tire of telling others that certain things cannot be done. The obverse is that they tell us that some things CAN be done which are scientifically known to be impractical for the foreseeable future. Impractical if we continue to deny reality and work totally in our imagination. To the extent that we look on such people as mentors, they disable us. To the extent that their social or physical power draws respect from us, we are deceived. To the extent that society imposes the values and standards of other individuals and institutions upon us, we are manipulated and brainwashed to respect the authority of other humans as replacements for God. Choice in such circumstances is withdrawn, perverted, or denied. To what end?
They would rather Fail, like their peers.
There is a comfort in numbers, even if the numbers are dying. There is a comfort in numbers as one does not have to risk being acknowledged as anything more than a number, a participant in an existence of monotonous acceptance -- untested, unchallenged, unfrustrated in their passivity. They would rather try to enjoy the temporary events of life as an antidote to the fears and anxieties that a Direct Science approach could forever resolve. How much better enjoyment is when you are content ... but you will never know that until you have experienced it. And I can't do that for you. If you want off the treadmill, YOU have to make the effort and take the risk: Earn the Result.
New Age Optimism.
Supra-human capabilities and awareness assumed possible is the ideology of Humanism, New Age, and BLOND influenced beliefs. These beliefs cannot be defined in black-and-white terms, which is why followers of them are so adept at deceptive reasoning. To the intellectually desperate and emotionally confused, these simplistic and all-positive SOUNDING principles provide a magical entry into the physically distant world of universal acceptance.
New Age and Humanist followers have an addiction to non-conflict.
It is too simple and incorrect to assume that this is the same as peace, calm, or quietude. They cannot cope well with the intensity of others, only their own. They will express agreement to the point of calling black white in order to avoid an argument. A discussion usually means persuading you to agree with them. They seldom sincerely listen, believing that they already have all the answers they need.
If you take their words personal and assume they know what they are saying, you will often become confused, shocked by their illogic, and hypnotized into believing there is something meaningful to their ramblings. If one wants to disable the intellect so as to leave the mind open to conditioning, calm, or focus, one technique is to repeat nonsense phrases. The intellect tires quickly from the confusion and blanks out. New Age adherents do not share with you or talk to you. They tell you.
Mentors and ministers of such faith turn the spiritual into easy-to-manipulate physical icons. The magic (control of God) by the use of mantras (hypnotic), jewelry, stones and crystals, and colorful books and pictures mesmerizes the person into a wonder and reverence for the physical. It is as old as the golden calf of the Jewish (Old) Testament, or the (superstitious) burial of the bones of revered parishioners in the cornerstones of medieval churches.
A belief that is NEEDED, and NOT supported by critical reasoning and experience can only be accepted by persons who are so emotionally and intellectually distracted as to accept over-simplistic and irrelevant statements. These people NEED to believe. Yet a need, rather than a desire, is compulsive-obsessive. Emotional and intellectual needs are built on inner weaknesses. Balancing and energy block development, outlined elsewhere on this site, provide one powerful support for these Needs.
Compulsions for the intellectually inclined result in Denial.
How can you acknowledge what you are not aware of? How aware can you be of something which is automatic? How aware can your identity cope with in knowing about something negative in your attitude and behavior which categorically cannot be controlled or changed because it is an addiction? Compulsions are addictions. You do them because of an expected benefit, which is illusory, and often does not become real or only becomes real temporarily.
Detail to the point of distraction has always been an addiction for the rational mind backed by Ego strength and SuperEgo absence. The young identity has been traumatized that for the Ego self to be recognized it must APPEAR to be acting in the service of others. So, many efforts are made to help others with the righteous expectation that one will be gratefully accepted and acknowledged -- a hero for the moment.
The reality is that we are often not rewarded for doing for others what we THINK others want or need, yet has not been requested, and often not even mentioned. Our projections are often selfishly what we would like and not what we think others should like. Our Pride, bolstered by our imprinted irreverence, prevents us from asking the questions, which could humiliate us by revealing our errors, yet also could provide us with the feedback to correct those errors as well as to honestly take credit for our accuracy of guess, expectation, intuition, Spiritual Guidance, or fore-knowledge.
Slaves are persons who willingly follow the direction of others so as to avoid Risk. In a world of turmoil and change where one's direction is often substantially influenced by the attitudes and actions of others, it can be a great comfort to believe that a person who has, or appears to have, great power, will take the risks and make the decisions that will provide a stability for oneself. You only need decide to follow. You will be told how to do that, what to say, how to act, what to worship, what to ignore, what to deny, what to eat, when and how long to sleep. Slaves are promised a life without anxiety, strife, need, uncertainty. Is it delivered?
Authoritative and confident.
New Age beliefs are always expressed with a certainty and sense of authority as to suggest that they are common sense and totally rational. For those without positive self-esteem and Basic Personality traits of aggressiveness (action), individuality, and justice (truth-equality-order-respect) ... the unconsciously communicated suggestion is that you have to be stupid, or evil, to disagree or suggest that you don't understand perfectly. There is no room for confusion, question, or dissent. This very attitude communicates intolerance while saying that all is to be tolerated.
Hypnosis depends upon communication which is consistent, authoritative, and accepted without question. It is a learning mechanism long used in religions (ritual), education (teachers, instructors), medicine (doctor-knows-all), politics (dictators, presidents), military (Generals, officers), and science (experts, geniuses). A class of people are sanctioned with telling others how to run their lives and what to think and are considered within the status quo as "beyond question".
Many people believe whatever these authorities say and use that confidence to try and gain acceptance and power amongst their peers by repeating the magical words of these human gods-mentors. They are often rewarded for their subservience and worship with acknowledgement from peers, a feeling of confidence and pride, and acceptance by the majority.
Hypnotic beliefs are FOCUSED and SIMPLISTIC.
They rarely come with any conditions, factors, alternatives. RELEVANCY is usually excluded as a concept. RESPECT for individual differences is usually excluded. A wholistic perspective requiring an awareness of many factors and a dynamic integration of these into a constructive result is usually denied. All of these DENIED possibilities take TIME and acknowledge the individual. They expose the weaknesses of authority systems and the injustices of global rules and regulations. This also applies to New Age, Humanist, AND conservative religious dogma.
What are we Missing by adopting hypnotic beliefs?
People are not (yet) clones, nor all agreeable slaves. That means they have individual Basic Personalities, hereditary and personal experiences (and energy block addictions), and differences of financial, material, spiritual, social, and political resources. That equals CONFLICT. Denying the conflict does NOT make it go away. It just hides it.
IF we want love, harmony, and contentment then we MUST work through the conflicts we encounter. Those who have the best conflict resolution (coping) skills will end up the ones who truly are more loving and loved, more happy, and more content than those who are unendingly expressing conflict without resolution, and, those who simply bury it for another day, or, discard it and the opportunity that comes with it for sharing, happiness and greater fulfillment.
Learn from the Past,
or, let it control you.
RELEASING ENERGY BLOCKS does not erase your memory.
Indeed, without energy blocks, such memories are often reclaimed from a dark hole of forgetfulness formed through denial previously to provide a lack of conscious awareness. That energy block induced loss performed the function of eliminating anxiety and providing confidence: an appearance of calm in times of potential growth and opportunity.
In reality, block-induced failure has been derived from the resulting insensitivity and obliviousness to one's surroundings. Without blocks, such old behaviors are no longer automatic. Choice for change is available. Change for improvement will often only arise by taking control of one's life with strong motivation.
Either you form new and strong positive attitudes and behaviors, or, you invite regression back to where you came from.
Planning gives options.
MENTORING FOR COPING can be just as equally important.
Going it alone for your self-development can be done but is seldom successful. We are usually very poor at pacing and motivating ourselves relevant to our personal capabilities and in accord with what is both humanly possible, and, worthless in terms of expected demand. Making a plan and determination to learn how to swim over an 18 month period while booking a swim-based holiday in 6 months --- is asking for failure.
If you want to be firm on the holiday date, then find a way to match your degree of preparation. Having a partner to train with, a coach to point out your weak points and applaud your interim achievements, and priorities temporarily adjusted for a balance of involvement and ability --- make your prospect of success much improved over individual effort.
Reality always has positives, AND negatives.
MISTAKES CAN HAVE DRASTIC CONSEQUENCES.
A lack of or inadequate preparation is a guarantee that new energy blocks will be built, or attempted to be built. If you have developed adequate personal skills for self-testing and self-awareness, and hopefully gained dependable Spiritual Guidance --- you can conduct your own Preventive Sessions.
Or, you may be fortunate to have a facilitator who is located near to you and whom you have requested assistance from as a mentor, coach, or partner. Without those options, you WILL build new blocks. They will begin to fog your awareness and limit your options. That will encourage your chances to build still more energy blocks and for you to miss more opportunities and more of life. The options are what degree of Prevention or Regression do you want to target for. It is Your life!
What is the middle path?
MANY FORMS OF COPING SKILLS and STRATEGIES can be learned.
The more dynamic your lifestyle and the more demanding your business and personal relationships, the greater will be the need for keen awareness and relevant solution finding if one is to avoid continual threats of building new blocks. There is never enough time to learn those skills until you decide that you are worth the effort to be prepared for success and a full and quality involvement in life.
Such benefits do not come to those who want it.
They come to those who make it happen.
Without blocks, you have the choice to ensure success. Only your stubbornness and strength of willpower, often in the form of Pride, and/or your degree of apathy and laziness, in the form of Egotistical Denial --- can hold you back. And they will, until you get tired of failing!
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