SUMMARY of QUESTIONS.
The Higher Self System of Self-Balancing.
Guide for the Personal Session Assistant.
DISCLAIMER: In any powerful opportunity for freedom to the individual, a caution must be stated to remind the individual that a failure to listen and adopt processes as described, or, a failure to acknowledge their own level of skill or lack thereof --- may result in an unsatisfactory or adverse outcome.
FORWARD:
The following list of questions was developed over a 10-year period. It is the result of 1 to 200 sessions with each of over 100 persons. Experience and opportunity sometimes reveals wider variations of factors and additional questions are then added to this list to facilitate the balancing of others.
The questions noted below encompass both frequently required questions in addition to some optional beneficial questions. Questions are usually asked requiring a YES or NO answer and must be as specific as the questioner is capable of understanding. For each question, click on the nearby DETAILS link for more description, clarification or hints.
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Which Bach Flower Remedy is called for?
Dr. EDWARD BACH, in the later years of his life --- already a highly successful bacteriologist and homeopathic physician --- spent his final 6 years defining a method of treatment that did not require the alteration or destruction of anything within the patient. The result was a set of 38 remedies ... flower essences and natural substances. The first step in this Balancing System is the choice of the specific remedy from the list below.
TO FIND THE SPECIFIC REMEDY, begin by asking in ranges of numbers first. Asking by number rather than name allows for a simple targeting by group while avoiding the affinity which the human Unconscious and Ego have for attaching apparent, and often inaccurate, assumptions and expectations (superstitions) to the name of the Remedy, and the condition of the client.
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Continuing with the testing, ask if the number of the Remedy required between 1 and 10; 11 and 20; 21 and 30; 31 and 38? Secondly, narrow the field further with smaller spans of numbers within the range indicated. Thirdly, confirm the requirement for a specific Remedy.
- (__) 1 to 10
(__) 11 to 20
(__) 21 to 30
(__) 31 to 38
i.e..
(__) 5 to 10
(__) 5 ... (__) 6 ... (__) 7 ... (__) 8 ... (__) 9 ... (__)10
How many drops are needed?
The number of drops required can range from 1 to 50.
Often the requirement is over 3 drops and less than 30 drops.
The essences serve as biochemical targeting agents.
Their quantity is as important as the remedy selection.
They function as keys to unlocking the "door" to the block sought.
Find the accurate number by asking in ranges of numbers first.
EXAMPLE:
FIRST: Is the number of drops required between the numbers 1 and 10; 11 and 20; 21 and 30; 31 and 40; 41 and 50 ?
SECONDLY, narrow the field further with smaller spans of numbers within the range indicated.
THIRDLY, confirm the requirement for a specific number of drops.
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(__) 1 to 10
(__) 11 to 20
(__) 21 to 30
(__) 31 to 40
(__) 41 to 50
i.e..
(__) 5 to 10
(__) 5 ... (__) 6 ... (__) 7 ... (__) 8 ... (__) 9 ... (__)10
Time frame origin of the block?
A RELEVANT TIME of ORIGIN which applies to any block must oftentimes also be determined as part of the targeting details required by the therapist to assist in targeting the correct energy block from the library of energy blocks recorded in the Reptilian structure of your brain. The testing procedure will indicate which factors are required to be defined in order for the correct combination of signals to be present to both target, unlock, and release the energy block and its degree of control over the individual's behavior and thinking patterns and attitudes.
A "PASS" indicates that this factor is not required for the release of this block, for this person.
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- (__) pass;
- (__) BC;
- (__) AD;
- (__) present lifetime;
- (__) now;
- (__) future;
- (__) singular year;
- (__) age at formation: age x or each of ages x1, x2, x3, x4, x5;
- (__) duration: from age xx to age xx;
- (__) during gestation: all, duration of, or specific months;
- (__) at conception;
- (__) during birth;
- (__) during 1st year of life
- (__) other.
Relevance of the block to the Individual?
Another factor which is usually required for the correct targeting, unlocking and releasing of an energy block is the RELATIONSHIP of the identity of the individual being tested to the nature of the energy block. That is, this is the title, description or focus of the block. When circumstances are presented to the brain which fulfil this "picture" or requirement, the block is immediately accessed and activated into action.
AN ENERGY BLOCK BUILDS STRENGTH each time your brain relies upon it. The habit of its use to resolve a potential difficulty becomes easier and quicker. IF UNRESOLVED, it will become the dominant and immediate reactive behavior expressed to resolve or interact with the triggering focus. At that point, you have little control or awareness of the choices which have already been made for you --- and either no or a limited ability to recognize or even consider other options.
RATIONALIZATION:
Persons who excuse their inappropriate behaviors with the following phrases are describing their lack of control over reactive behaviors elicited by their Reptilian brain structure depending on stored energy block patterns:
- "That's just the way I am."
- "That's what I always do."
- "I hate it when I do that."
- "Why do I do that!"
- "Everyone says it's my personality."
- "It must be in my genes."
- "It just popped out before I could stop it."
- "That is terrible of me."
- "I can't win for losing."
- "It seems like the world is always against me."
- "You can always count on me to mess it up."
- "One of these times, I'll get it right."
- "I just can't seem to do any differently."
- "I just know it's the answer!"
- "I don't like (any other option)."
- "I'm not comfortable with (any other option)."
- "I don't like it but it's what I/we have to do."
No one can OUT-RATIONALIZE an energy-blocked person.
That person is hooked. They are addicted! Therapies and strategies which abuse the energy-blocked person by accusing them of being weak willed or weak spirited only serve to further weaken the person by making them feel ashamed and guilty for behaviors and attitudes over which they have no control. At best, such methods are effective in submerging the original behavior beneath a new addictive behavior --- which the abusive source may either encourage, or further engage in victimization.
MANY OPPORTUNITIES TO DEVELOP RATIONALIZATIONS are presented.
The afflicted person is encouraged by their Ego and SuperEgo to find some form of justification to enable denial and release itself from the depressiveness of persistent guilt and shame, as well as attacks from others. The result can be an increasing emotional deadening --- the so-called "objective" person, and, a person who continually develops an expanding amnesia about their past.
IT IS NOT MEMORY LOSS DUE TO AGING, it is memory loss due to emotional distancing from their own traumas. Remove the block, and the memory returns. Only then can the memory be constructively relived, reframed, and utilized to develop new coping approaches. Conscious awareness of the detail is not always necessary.
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ASSOCIATIONS tend to fall into the following categories:
- (__) expectations of/for
- (__) feelings, difficulty with, or, denial of
- (__) need for
- (__) desire for
- (__) want to/for
- (__) relationship to
- (__) fear of
- (__) don't need to know
- (__) pass
DEFINE the RELEVANCY by choosing -- targeting -- isolating .... a form of association. Very seldom, yet possible, a block can be associated with two or three categories and/or factors. In one case, a client had an association between four variables --- indicating a very complex emotional experience leading to the block creation. Next, determine what the specific aspects of that category are applicable for this block.
For FEELINGS consider these choices: feelings
(__) difficulty with, OR (__) denial of;
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(__) rejection, (__) doubt, (__) regret,
(__) depression, (__) doom, (__) abandonment,
(__) weakness, (__) exhaustion, (__) injustice,
(__) defensiveness, (__) confusion, (__) betrayal,
(__) anger, (__) hate, (__) vengeance,
(__) grief, (__) pride, (__) other.
For EXPECTATIONS of/for consider these choices:
(__) self, (__) parents, (__) relatives,
(__) males, (__) females, (__) spouse,
(__) brother(s), (__) sister(s), (__) peers,
(__) one's own children, (__) children (others),
(__) friends, (__) associates, (__) clients,
(__) enemies, (__) strangers, (__) strange beings,
(__) younger persons, (__) older persons,
(__) others, (__) ET's
For RELATIONSHIP to OR fear of, test for these:
(__) anger, (__) feelings, (__) no emotion,
(__) self, (__) parents, (__) relatives,
(__) God, (__) spouse, (__) others,
(__) one's own Higher Self, (__) Higher Self of others,
(__) males, (__) females, (__) friends,
(__) peers, (__) associates, (__) children,
(__) security, (__) risk, (__) heredity,
(__) position, (__) privilege, (__) political power,
(__) enemies, (__) strangers, (__) strange beings,
(__) deception, (__) manipulation,
(__) victimization -- abuse, spiritual, (__) betrayal,
(__) brother(s), (__) sister(s),
(__) younger persons, (__) older persons,
(__) wild animals, (__) domestic animals,
(__) environment, (__) violence
For either of NEED FOR || DESIRE FOR || WANT TO/FOR one or more of the following are frequently indicated:
(__) acceptance,
(__) success,
(__) freedom,
(__) power,
(__) control
(__) intimacy,
(__) security,
(__) solitude,
(__) other __________.
TEST FOR THE CATEGORY FIRST; then test for the aspect within the category. Occasionally, more than one aspect may apply. In rare instances, you may be required to innovate for your subject and find some new aspect.
MUCH OF THE POWER OF OUR MINDS HAS BEEN BYPASSED because it is too easy for the consciousness of the untrained human Ego to assume that one's mind is incapable of such feats of memory, specification, and sensitivity. To acknowledge such is very humbling to the Ego. It is an admission that it is not, nor can be, in complete control. This doubt/unbelief is "educated" into the mind of every person by educational, religious and social institutions.
YOU are capable of such associations and your brain is powerful, and limited, in its attempts to protect you from perceived-as-traumatic (unplanned for) events. Be humbled by the greatness of your God and of the powers which you have been educated to ignore. Institutions win your obedience and slavery by continually encouraging within you the Egotistical denial and pride that forces you into repetitive failures and obsessive behaviors. Held responsible for what you cannot control, you look to HUMAN leaders and organizations for salvation. A salvation promised in return for your empowerment of them ... and never delivered.
TO BE AWARE IS TO ATTRACT HEALTH.
DARE to be FREE !
In freedom one is open to the direction of one's Higher Self, --- that personal guide which communicates God's mission for you to you.
PRINCIPLE of Influence and Nature of ERROR?
The PRINCIPLE (Spiritual Focus) with which each Bach Flower Remedy is associated is well outlined in the book,)
Bach Flower Therapy: Theory and Practice by Mechthild Scheffer.
TO ASSIST the MIND in REFRAMING (seeing, understanding, feeling ... from a different perspective) the original traumatic incident which led to the formation of the energy block being examined, --- a review of the description of the Principle is often required. In all but the final stages of energy block releasing, conscious awareness of this description is UNNECESSARY.
That is, it is not necessary to study or analyze, or even BELIEVE the content consciously. The influence and the health benefits will follow whether the participant believes that the process will "work" or whether any confidence is held in regard to the remedies themselves, OR the therapist.
It is the Unconscious (Reptilian Structure), Superego and Ego structures, during this period, which are listening and responding. Of course, the individual reading through the principle must understand the meaning of the words themselves and a few people may benefit from having access to a dictionary, or feedback from their facilitator.
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INTERACTION with the Principle:
DEPENDING UPON THE SPIRITUAL STRENGTH of the individual, the number of energy blocks confusing, distracting and fogging that person's brain and consciousness, and, the strength or intensity of the current energy block being released --- the individual may need to interact with the description of the Principle in one or more of the following ways:
- (__) pass,
- (__) read, to oneself (or say)
- (__) say, out loud
- (__) hear, from anyone
- (__) more than 1 of the above,
- (__) a repetition of one of the above,
- (__) a reference in place of the Principle.
PASS, often means that the incident in question is too intense for the individual to consciously be aware of at this point. Spiritually, it would be abusive to force this recognition on the Ego --- so the subject's Higher Self has directed you to avoid this direct conscious association now.
READING to oneself is an indication that the subject has the ability to focus on and proceed through the materials.
HEARING, as a method, may indicate that the person is so distracted by the presence and domination of the current block and others that the attention required to read or even say the Principle is lacking. It is not that one's Ego would find the material too intense. It simply is likely to drift away from Unconscious distractions with the subject losing track of where they are or what they have read.
SAYING slows the mind down and helps it focus on what it is doing, consciously. For the self-directed approach, you may have someone else read the principle into a tape recording, or you may attempt to do so yourself --- and then listen to it. The recorded reading will be most effective if the reader pronounces the words so that you easily understand them, reads at a moderate pace, and speaks clearly and in a confident tone.
COMBINATIONS, or, MULTIPLE interactions with the principle is an indication that the Personal Spirit and Ego of the individual is both strong enough and yet weakened enough by the current energy block to require and benefit from a more clear awareness of the nature of the block. This option is seldom indicated.
AFFIRMATIONS as catalysts to treatment.
A CATALYST is an ingredient which remarkably influences the activation, modification, benefit, or completion of a process much beyond its solitary contribution. That is, when included and required as indicated by testing, --- an affirmation, and the manner of its use, can increase the session effectiveness by up to 400%.
That is, release of the block may occur in one quarter of the time otherwise required. While the difference between 15 minutes and 1 hour may not seem critical, the difference between one year and 4 years is likely to get your attention ... and result in 3 years added unnecessary grief. Following the process outlined on these pages will result in energy blocks being released as fast as YOUR Life System is capable of doing so.
THE STATISTICS of BLOCK RELEASE TIMES demonstrated by well over 200 persons in the release of 1000's of blocks indicates that 50% of energy blocks can be released with this process within a month. It should be remembered that no remaining energy blocks can present themselves until they are triggered, AND, until the current dominant block or set of blocks has been released.
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- (__) pass, OR (__) say;
- (__) from Scheffer, (__) Katz, (___ Hay, (___ Other
- Which remedy (__), section (__), page, (__) line
- How many affirmations in the section to choose from:(__);
- Which one is to be used first? :
(__) 1st, (__) 2nd, (__) 3rd, (__) 4th, (__) 5th, (__) 6th
- Number of times to repeat this affirmation: (__).
This number is usually between 1 and 45 with the emphasis on 1.
- Is a
- second affirmation required ?
- third affirmation required ?
- fourth affirmation required ?
- ....
- (__) No (proceed to next section)
- (__) Yes (repeat above steps in this section).
Other REFERENCES for awareness building.
References other than those having to do directly with the Bach Flower remedies, whenever available to the facilitator, their use should be tested for. There is a possibility that one or more of them will have passages which address the issue of awareness connected with the release of a particular block. Such references can provide in fuller personal terms the information required for the targeting and self-development and will enhance the benefit to the individual of any interaction with the Principle or Affirmations indicated.
Indeed, such a reference may be the only point of conscious contact with the Principle and Affirmations bypassed entirely.
DEPENDING UPON the thinking style, personality, and idiosyncratic nature of the energy block being addressed, almost any book may prove beneficial.
IT IS UNNECESSARY for the therapist or individual to have had any contact with this reference previously. This is an impressive characteristic of one's Higher Self --- that it can direct you to a specific book, page and passage --- which will have intimate significance for a person about whom you may know nothing consciously!
IT IS A REALITY, and a benefit to the therapist, however, that in a personal library of well over 2000 books, less than 50 may be frequently requested by the Higher Selves of numerous clients.
Where you have a resource of a few books or a library of any size, always consider asking the Higher Self of your participant if any of them are required to assist in releasing the current block being tested. Here are some questions to narrow your search:
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